Quarter Life Crisis Occurs at 25 years old? I don’t think so!


I was in FULL KNOWLEDGE that today is the 1st of December. It means that this is the final leg of the ‘race’ in 2010. Now, when it’s this time of the year, I usually know that I’m just 1 month away to my birthday (hint: it’s in january.. duh!) and this year it’s especially surreal because I’m turning 25 next year.

25 = quarter century old = quarter life crisis

Is it? I don’t know. But I certainly hope not.

Now as I ponder what exactly has happened in the past 24 years of my life, I dare say that this life has been well-lived so far, simply because I try to live by the motto of ‘Carpe Diem’ and early experiences in life have led me to treasure life even more.

The MMI event I recently went to (if you haven’t read it, it’s here), has made me more aware of the importance of success and celebrating it. It was really funny to me to go through one activity in MMI where I had to list the successes in my life because i think around 3 or 4years ago, Calvin did a similar exercise with me. So what we have to do is to list down the number of successes we have experienced in our life. Back then, I didn’t write a single thing! I think I only wrote 1 and I felt sooo bad that I didn’t have any achievements in my life.

BUT NOW.. it’s different.

At the event, successes that I have experienced from when I was young till today, came to me quite naturally and I just felt overwhelmed at how much I have changed – how now I do not think as poorly of myself as before.

Were the experiences of success the determining factor?

Maybe. But I have to say that it’s how I think and choose to empower myself with my success stories that caused me to remember and list them more.

Food for thought:

Now, don’t you think if you are constantly thinking about how successful you are, you probably will think that you are?

Similarly, if you constantly can’t recall your achievements, you probably will be thinking you have nothing much to cheer about and you aren’t successful.

That was the revelation that I got from MMI’s experience.

The more you think about success and how you are able to achieve, the more likely you are to think that you have the ability to succeed. Well, what the ‘gurus’ like to term this, especially in The Secret, is what they call the Law of Attraction. Law of Attraction or not, it just shows how important empowering yourself with positive beliefs (especially about yourself) are.

So right now, Calvin and I have adopted the exercise conducted from MMI where we celebrate at least 5 of our daily successes, big or small, just to keep the positive energy going.

I have to say that I’m not the most positive person in this world. I actually like to think – since opposites attract; Calvin is super positive ALL THE TIME, that explains why I’m usually the negative party in this relationship. Β It’s all his fault! πŸ˜›

Well, the exercise has been useful so far though sometimes we laugh at the fact that we only have 3 for the day and we try to do something to make up for success #4 and #5. That still helps, doesn’t it? We train ourselves to be successful! Hehe..

So that’s the crux that I wanna share with you and that is, celebrate your successes – old, new, big or small. They are never too small to be passed off as insignificant because they are small achievements meant to be celebrated! So celebrate!

p.s. Though I do recognize my abilities in achieving my successes, I do not want to forget my Jesus. Because only with Him, all things are possible.


6 responses to “Quarter Life Crisis Occurs at 25 years old? I don’t think so!”

  1. Lester Lim Avatar
    Lester Lim

    I am born in Jan too! but come Jan I will be 26. haha

  2. Patricia Avatar

    Hey Lester!

    Oh really? Haha.. cool! Fellow January Baby! I love the month of January. When’s your birthday?


  3. Lester Lim Avatar
    Lester Lim

    Im bornt on the 3rd! haha! Bad thing is not many people will remember coz most of them will still be holidaying away or sch just starting back during my sch days!

    When is yours?

  4. Patricia Avatar

    Mine’s on the 7th! πŸ™‚


  5. Lester Lim Avatar
    Lester Lim

    haha.. 4 days apart only! oh and do you know I only started trying to understand IM since attending the accelerated blogging profits workshop by calvin and yourself? the 2 of you have a great impact in my life! Haha..

  6. Patricia Avatar

    Hey Lester! πŸ™‚ Counting down to your birthday yet? Cos I am to mine!

    Haha.. Thanks a lot for sharing that! I’m glad that we managed to inspire you some way or another!

    I have to say it’s a lot of things to learn and discover. If you encounter any problems/ questions, do just post a comment here! I’ll reply you here or even make a blog post out of it!


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